I am Rewording “Wordless Wednesdays” to “Whiney Wednesdays”, well … because … I’m a Whiner at Times!!
Posted on February 15th, 2012 by roxxyroller in Free Coupons Canada Samples Canadian Free stuff.
Yes, I know what most of you are thinking right now — there is pretty much nothing worse to listen to than whining. Do I enjoy listening to it? Not on your life!! Do I enjoy whining myself on occasion? I damn well do!!
Growing up in a family with 6 kids, my parents had the perfect “Brady Bunch” family which consists of 3 boys, and 3 girls. Where do I fit in this lineup? I am the baby, and would not have it any other way!!
My 3 older brothers and 2 older sisters spoiled me rotten, as did my parents. Whatever I wanted, I basically got on a silver platter while walking on the long red carpet that they rolled out for me. “Your hinus” is a term that my brothers and sister used regularly, and it made me feel special! Did I ever get into trouble in my life? Oh yes I did!! Did I get spanked on the ass growing up? Ouch yes!! Did I ever get the fly swatter across the butt? Mmmmm Hmmmm! Did I do that same thing again that initially got me into trouble? No frigging way!! Needless to say: whining, crying, and taking temper-tantrums got me mostly anything that I desired, materially that is!
I hang my head in shame now for acting like this growing up, and I don’t know how my parents actually put up with me! I almost see myself as being a little devious evil Nelly Olson when I was a kid, and am certainly not proud of it by all means!!
My parents had nicknames for me, 1 being “Heather-Bells”, and the other being “Pet”. My older brothers still call me “Pet” to this day, and it doesn’t even dawn on me — it’s just like they are calling me Heather. I continue to apologize to my now elderly parents (Mom 77, Dad 83) to this day, and they just laugh and tell me that it is alright, that I never got into any trouble with the law or pulled off anything harsh, (nor did my brothers or sisters for that matter, so they obviously did something right when raising our dysfunctional family! lol). The worst part though? To this day I continue on with this behaviour but with my husband, and it works!!
If I were him, I would not stick around with a whiney person who only take fits when they cannot get their own way! I would have been long gone! He continually tells me that I am just a spoiled brat who always got everything I wanted, and tries to tell me that this behaviour won’t work with him, but he honestly gives in 95% of the time! At the time, I really don’t care. I want it, I need it, and I don’t care! I am getting it come hell or high water!! The thought of my childhood plays over and over in my mind just like it was yesterday.
I am a suck-ass and I know it, and well frankly for him to put up with me obviously means that he really truly does love me! I know deep down that I should not be acting like a 5 year old taking tantrums, but when the time comes that my husband relays that dreaded word “NO!”, I will not have anything to do with that word, and NO means YES in my vocabulary!!
Well, there is my Whiney Wednesday rant, and I am sure that there are unfortunately people just like me out there, and if so, I would love to hear your stories!!
Until then, Happy Whiney Wednesday!!
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ursula b
February 15th, 2012 at 12:34 pm
Well growing up I had this bff who was so whiney, demanding at times. But she was a good friend and a awesome person. She had the most awesome parents, we could do whatever we wanted to do, cook, crank the tunes, run around and drive her brothers nuts, we could even crank the heater in my truck song and I don’t think I ever seen her get in trouble. All her brothers and sisters were so awesome, I envyed that because I didn’t have any brothers or sisters, until I was 10. The whining doesn’t matter when your friend is honest, funny, happy and a awesome person. Heather will always be my true friend…